Have you ever wanted to Host or Foster?

We have done both, as I have said. Well, it wasn't always something we have wanted to do. When we first started the process of fostering there was a lot of hesitation. What if we didn't do things right? What if the kids didn't like us? What if the parents didn't like us? What if we didn't have room? What about school? What about work? What about meetings? What about drivers' licenses, cars, and insurance? What about our dog? Girls? Boys? Ages? And then there are chores?
What is very interesting is that many of the same questions can be asked about exchange students. We have had kids from age 2 years old to aging out. Some haven't liked us either. We have been crowded sometimes but we have always made room. Usually we have had no complaints about having to share. The only ones who actually complained were exchange students. We have had so many kids at some times that we have spent HOURS at the school during conference time, and that was with some of the kids having the same teachers.
Exchange students can't get drivers' licenses and foster kids are not supposed to either. We feel if the foster can prove him or herself with the social worker and us then we should consider it, though they would have to get a job and pay insurance. After all, how many teens in the US live for getting their license?
Most all the kids have loved, or at least put up with our dogs. And funny, though we have gotten the dogs from shelters, they have put up with the kids as well.
Chores are important for self-esteem, and to help out the family. How many of you care about your child having a perfectly clean room? Is it that important if they help in the main part of the house where all the visitors come? That is how we feel. No food in their rooms, and then you don't have to worry too much about bugs. And why not teach them to use the washer/dryer. It sure saves you time and they learn something for independence, that as an adult they may need at some point.